The Love You Deserve

Nope, it’s not easy to find love. ☝🏻

It doesn’t happen overnight and you don’t bump into the person that’s meant for you the moment you walk towards the corner of the street.πŸ˜… Ok, unless you are really, really lucky. Lol.πŸ˜‚

Finding your true love is not as easy as just wishing for it to fall on your lap.

You have to be at the right place, at the right time, having the right state of mind, body and soul.☝🏻

How do you know then if you met that person already?πŸ˜³πŸ€”

There are times though when we confuse the one for us with people who just played a part in our story.

Sounds familiar? That one person who we thought would be our missing piece. Everything feels magical every time you’re together.

With no formality whatsoever, you assumed you’ve found your happily ever after❀️❀️❀️ But then suddenly, without warning, a plot twist happened.

You started to talk less, drift apart, see other people, without knowing why or how. Then before you know it, you are in a relationship and yet a part of you still asks at times: what if you two ended up together? πŸ€”

Then there’s the person you ended up with. That person came along during the time you were feeling somewhat uncertain. This person took away all the doubts. However, the big question really is: how long is this person going to stay? For the meantime or forever?πŸ€” Ideally, the more you get to know the person, the more reasons you find to fall in love with him/her more, and not the other way around. And yes, even if this person stayed, a plot twist can still happen. Will you guys stay in love…or would you rather stay as friends?

Sounds crazy?πŸ˜‚

Yup, finding (and keeping) love can be complicated. But it can be all worth it.

But you know what’s more important?

By doing so, you can make even the one who got away, change his/her mind and choose to stay instead.

When you love yourself more, even the one who stayed will respect that, to the point that he/she will let you go if staying means hindering your personal growth.

When you love, both of you must grow together.

It need not end up romantically always, but in ways that will make you both flourish: as friends, or even family still.

And that’s still ok.β€οΈπŸ™πŸ»

Know that when you are able to embrace yourself whole and love yourself fully, the right one for you will finally come and make you realize why all the ones who got away and the ones who chose to initially stay are no longer part of your story.πŸ’«

You won’t have any disclaimer or resistance.

You just have each other.

Yep, we all deserve a happily ever after. And by this I mean that we will all end up with that one person who will love us just the way we wanted, with no more ifs nor buts.😍

You will just know you’ve found it because everything will fall into place.☝🏻

Trust the process, like I always say.

You will get the love you deserve.❀️❀️❀️

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