So given this definition, should the opinion of others really matter?☝🏻
This post was inspired by the numerous people who approached me for advice regarding how they can handle the criticisms of others better. None of them had issues about the compliments they received though, LOL😂
My answer was simple: you know yourself better than anyone else. You know your worth. Take it from there.
Now, take it from me, through the years I have heard a lot of people say different things about me, both good and bad. 😅Admittedly, I used to get upset when I get bashed for whatever reason, but I have learned to take the bashings lightly.💅🏻👏🏻
My only question was: how will my reaction help me grow?❤️
It was no longer about whether it was true or not; it was how I can actually take it and move on and forward from the experience.🙏🏻
You see, I may not have the power to control what others have to say about me, but I certainly have the power to choose how I will react to them❤️☝🏻
And through the years, I have kept my self worth intact. Again, life is too short to try to please others always. To each his own, so let me be.
At the end of the day, I can still be my #bestmeever , regardless of what others may say❤️🙏🏻😊
So the next time you hear an opinion about you, listen to it and weigh everything first before throwing a fit.
If it will help you grow, apply it; if not, let go☝🏻